Step #1 : If you are currently mad and depressed than do not, I repeat DO NOT Text or Dial your ex. Take some a day or two and cool off. Really, I mean it.

Step #2 : Don’t try right now to figure out what happened. It is best to lay low and not try to chase after them by waxing poetic and professing your undying love. Just know that that right now any seemingly “logical” arguments are not as logical as they might appear. You want to pull them back to you push them away further.

Step #3 You have many top quality assets. Now is a good time to think about them. If you haven’t taken time for your self, do it now… work on yourself…Don’t waste your time - yours and theirs- to try to change them or their mind. It is ME time now.

Step #4 Do you appear desperate, or needy or even worse depressed. Take 5 and go out with some friends and lighten up. A fun person will become much more attractive to your ex and to other potential new mates as well.

Step #5 Going out on a date can have an amazing effect. If you decided to follow the advice in step 4 above than you may just decide to date or not to date? Just the act of going out with someone new can be of value to your ego. It is just important that you get out of the house and out of your head. You may find that it will help you boost your confidence as well.

These are only a few steps to help you get back with your ex. If you are seeking help with trying to get back with your exapply these steps today.

You need to feel like there is hope for you now. If you feel confident than work with that and often it can be the best opportunity to win back the heart of the one they love.

These 5 steps worked for me and saved my relationship. Everyone goes through some rough patches as they come naturally to a long term partnership. I wish you the best in getting your ex back.