Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?
And how does it feel that despite of all your hard work you’re still not getting the success you’re looking for?
READ ON if you answered YES those questions.
I’m not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.
You are interested in a woman that has a boyfriend.
You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.
Not to mention the fact that as the man you pretty much have to do everything to move things forward.
YOU have to have the courage to approach.
At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.
Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.
(Let’s not started on that…let’s just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “beautiful.”)
That can be debilitating, especially if you don’t have an “extroverted” trait.
…I just had a client who often complained of “extroversion fatigue.”
I used to struggle with that too that’s why I knew exactly what he meant.
Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.
I would have to sit down and rest!
I am working hard than I was in my full time job instead of having some fun and relax in those situation. Now you see how strange it is.
I would go home and be absolutely DEAD
… from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!
Does it make sense to you???
And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.
It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!
The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)
All I can say is that I have this passion in learning those stuff (very eager for the outcome after years of sensual frustration)
I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym
I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I’ve never done before.
If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.



