There’s one thing you need to know when going for a one-night stand - You cannot always bring home the hottest girl in the place.
You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.
However, in any bar, club, or even a day-time situation, there are LOTS of horny women who would be open to getting down with you that same day or night. You just have to know how to spot these women.
Some of the few things that you should look for are on the way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.
They want to be approached. This of course, isn’t always true, but is generally the case.
You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.
And the last thing that I look for, are women that are all standing and scoping around the room with blank expressions. Also those women that is looking around the room more often than the other girls in their group.
They are basically putting themselves out there, waiting for someone to approach them.
Now you have to take this in mind — Avoid running your clever routines into full-stream and your cocky frame control stuff when approaching those women.
You have to let them know that you are interested in meeting them, A simple “hey ladies, you all look great tonight. Special occasion?” is enough. Its just have to be light, warming and social.
To discuss openly that you want her in bed and looking to take her home can put a woman into a a point to agree and bang with you, implicitly. So try not to make it obvious that it is your main purpose.
Rather you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
This is against her “rules” and will force her to keep you at a distance. You’re also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.
The important thing here is to act as NOT trying to pick her up and eliminating any overt sensual intention.
Just enjoy yourself while escalating appropriately and have a willingness to control the situation.
Although it may seem as counter intuitive, but this is how it works.
You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.
Some won’t and some will, and that is why you need to know how to spot and get them.
You don’t want to put a lot of effort and time with the wrong girl or to pick the right girl and then mess it up after a very long interaction.
It will just be a waste of time.
